Hi, thankyou to everyone for all the presents and cards for Tomas. We have been really blessed with everyones generosity and I apologise for not sending out individual thankyou cards but we really appreciate them all.
Mike wanted me to share something of Tomas’s birth as it was such an emotional occasion. I’ll outline it and not go into too much detail!!!
Not to put people off but it’s best not to know of the pain involved! Once the epidural took effect it was wonderful (hence the hello mag) but after that was limited it became a background/not very much, relief. Tomas’s head had become stuck 3cm away from outside life so they resorted back to the old fashioned way of pushing on my stomach (3 times)!! Apparently illegal in the UK. Finally the 3rd time after about 2 hours of pushing and with the use of the ventouse we had a baby boy.
However it may sound strange after reading the above but the two male midwives we had were fantastic in that we had a good rapport with them and they tried to help me have as natural birth as any.
Afterwards Tomas was placed straight on my tummy and then given to Mike for the next two and a half hours while I was being stitched (:( ). Once back on the ward the food came and as Mike lifted the bed head up for me I passed out. Unfortunately I had lost alot of blood and needed a transfusion, which I had the following day. I gave birth on the sunday and we were released on the tuesday afternoon. So that’s the bare bones of it. Least to say we were very glad to get home!
The following saturday my family came so we were all together to celebrate christmas albeit as tired but very proud parents : )